Thursday, April 7, 2016

What bathroom do you want my husband using?

I see this issue coming up more and more on social media, concerned conservative parents not wanting transgender girls in their bathrooms, well guess what, by that logic you want my big burly 230+ lb husband in your bathroom.  No he has not been on his hormones long enough to have his beard yet which will make him even more intimidating, but he definitely looks and sounds more male each month.
When we loved in GA (up until last August) he was still using the women's room, because well, they had more stalls, and we were in a state where he was worried about violence against him if he went in to the men's room. We live in MD now,and he has been using the men's room since we moved, it makes him more confident in his identity to be able to, and since he isn't in there to peek at people, or do anything perverted, it isn't a big deal to any one.  I'm pretty sure if he tried to go into the women's room here, 8 more months in to his transition (so now a full year after he started T) there would be many more issues. My husband is not going to do anything to any one's child, or any adult for that matter, while in the restroom, or anywhere, so it really doesn't effect any one where he decides to pee. Yet to all those bigots, for some reason, it matters.
I'm sorry that they don't understand in keeping transgender women out of their bathrooms, they are asking the transgender males to come back, people like Buck Angel, Chaz Bono and Loren Cameron. I'm just naming 3 famous men, there are more, they are easy to find.
There are new studies saying 1 in 3 people know or work with a transgender person, so chances are these women know people who have transitioned and never even realized it.

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